Wyodiva, I hate hearing what you’re going through! Weight gain is not uncommon following surgery. What concerns me the most is your bowel movement change. Bloating and cramping would be expected. Are you eating the same types of food as you did prior to surgery? Regardless, I’d follow up with a Gastroenterologist and let them find out the reason for the lack of bowel movements. Good luck and keep us posted on how your doing…David