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Pancreatic Cancer | Last Active: Oct 29, 2023 | Replies (28)Comment receiving replies
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Oh my gosh, I just happened to come across what you wrote above. This is exactly what I’m always trying to explain. I’m a 62 yr old female who has an oncologist 2hrs away. Everyone keeps saying you have to advocate for yourself! I have no idea what I’m looking for, I’ve only seen the oncologist on my 1st visit. It seems every time I get chemo something bad happens. Allergic to that F drug and sent to ER. Blood clot and embolism to lung next treatment, etc. I’m going for my 3rd gem/abraxine rx Monday.
I don’t understand centers for excellence. Went to John’s Hopkins when I was 1st diagnosed in March but they said I’d have to move to the area and someone would have to move there too to get me to appts, chemo, etc because I’d be too sick and needed someone there. Who’s going to quit their job to do that? So I just gave up and came back home. I feel like I’ve signed my death warrant because I don’t understand all this. Can’t drive anymore because of all the meds. How does everyone get to work? I’m so depressed and constantly having panic attacks I just stay inside my 4 walls and in bed most of the time. If you don’t believe in whatever the centers for excellence are, how would you go about trying to find somewhere that cares if you live or die? What do you do if you’re older and all alone like I am? I just can’t understand how you go on living even halfway normal lives. I’m sorry for going on and on but when I read what you wrote I thought maybe this person can explain.
Wishing you all the best in continuing your advocacy for yourself. I am hoping that my local oncologist, who I like very much, will be responsive to the advice of my team at MSKCC. Even though they are within 2 hours ground transportation away, it would be difficult to transfer care. I am hoping that my doctor will follow the lead of world class experts. I am glad you second opinion team continues to be responsive to your questions.