Oh my gosh--the fecal incontinence sounds horrible. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I sometimes wonder if it wouldn't be easier and less painful to have a colostomy bag. At least you don't have to worry about accidents. If my GI doctor suggests it, I won't fight him on it.

I thought I was the only one who broke out in a sweat when trying to have a painful bowel movement! I actually have to take my shirt off. Sometimes I feel like I might pass out. Cancer sucks!