My husband used Depends for a while and was content with them but he was/is very resistant to changing. They didn’t hold up for long. We switched to Seni pull-ups which are very absorbent and traps the moisture away from his body. Even when he sat in urine all day, he never has had any sign of a rash or sores. I order them from Amazon. We did try the style with tabs but they always seemed to come loose. I clip the seams with scissors before using to help with tearing to remove. If your husband doesn’t mind changing, that may not be needed.