Stage 3 colon cancer: What's your experience?

Posted by maya8238 @maya8238, Jan 10, 2023

I didn’t get an a b or c though. Just got told Stage 3. 7 lymph nodes found out of 37. The surgeon didn’t seem to be worried about my stage 3 made it seem ok but Google tells a different story. I call the oncologist today.

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@rioa21

I am so happy that you got good news about your tumor! I hope I am as lucky. My first scan is March 6th and results on the 8th. I ended my treatments in December and have been anxiously waiting for the scan. My tumor was very large, but I felt relief after the first week of treatment. I could finally sit without pain. So I’m hopeful.

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Glad to hear that you are feeling some relief from the treatment and I completely understand the anxiety waiting for the scan and results. Sounds like we both will be getting more information around the same time. Hoping for good news for you, too, and I look forward to hearing what happens next for you.

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Just finished six months of chemotherapy for sigmoid colon cancer stage 3.
3 Days after last treatment, fingers numb and tingling,sometimes feet is the same. Kind of weak ,yet I walk as much as I can. Not much strength. Taste is awful.,have a appetite but no taste .sleep is ok,except I get up several times each night to urinate.no problem going back to sleep . Hopeing for the best.

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@briancl

I was diagnosed with stage 3 anorectal cancer. I initially thought I had a gastro issue and saw a gastroenterologist. He suspected cancer and I had a colonoscopy done, where it was confirmed. They decided to treat me with chemotherapy followed by radiation. They inserted a port in my chest and I have had 8 chemo sessions now. I am not sure exactly what chemo they used except that it supposedly targets fast growing cells. I was on pain killers (ibuprofin) for a number of months, which I was not too happy about as it can attack the stomach lining. Just the same, it was the only thing that seemed to help, but after my 2nd chemo session I have not used pain killers.

I also could not sit due to pain so had to lie on a couch or stand to eat. I have not experienced a loss in appetite, although I did lose about 15 lb initially. I am now able to sit at a table so that makes it much easier to socialize which I think is important to keep a semblance of normality.

Chemo was not as bad as I expected, and I have managed my 8 sessions (every 2 weeks) plus 2 days with a chemo pump. You do feel absolutely wiped out after the sessions, but I have not experienced nausea or hair loss. Only real fatigue for a number of days afterwards. I now move on to radiation so we will see what that brings.

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can you please share what are the symptoms that you felt. i also feel a soft mass inside my rectum and painful at sometimes when i poop and after it. Please share your symptoms....

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@paul28

We know what the Oncologist will say and tell you ; have a good discussion with your surgeon first or at least seek a second opinion.
This is just my opinion based on personal experience to date.
Actually, your saying that the surgeon didn't seem too concerned of your stage 3 and was ok with it is troubling.
Best Wishes to you !

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Second opinion for sure, I think it’s negligent to have told you that, and not make any suggestion to aid in your body fighting this off. Colon Cancer is a morbid condition very common, with that being said, so is Breast Cancer, or Lung Cancer, these are the most common ones, maybe that’s why you doctor didn’t seem concerned, however he is not the one dying of stage 4 CA apparently, I lost several relatives to Colon Cancer sadly. Best wishes and Please see a good oncologist

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My journey started one year ago. I was diagnosed with stage 3 colon cancer at that time. I had surgery and 3 lymph nodes were positive. I had 6 months chemo with folfox. According to my oncologist. Your rate of cure rate with out chemo is 60 percent. With Chemo its 85 percent. I would not risk it without doing chemo. Chemo is not fun but I am happy to say I am done with it. My year anniversary scope was normal. BTW I am also a doctor and this has been the most humbling experience of my life.

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@rioa21

I was diagnosed with anal cancer in September of 2022. I thought it was my hemorrhoids acting up. I saw my gastroenterologist. I told them I felt like I was sitting on a golf ball. Even with a cushion, I couldn’t sit comfortably. After weeks of back and forth he finally did a sigmoidoscopy. When I woke up and saw his face, he looked like he saw a ghost. My tumor was that large. Almost the size of a tennis ball. I was referred to a radiologist and oncologist. I had one dose of Mytomicin and Xeloda for 5 days a week for 6 weeks. I had radiation at the same time. I think I did pretty well with the chemo. The hardest part of that was forcing myself to eat something before I took the 5 pills 2X a day. The burns from the radiation is what really affected me the most. The pain was excruciating. We bought a bidet that fit on our toilet and that really helped. My stomach was another story. I suffered from radiation enteritis from the second week of treatment until recently. Now I am left with little control over my sphincter muscle. In 2 weeks I will have a CAT scan to see if the treatment helped. It has been an extremely difficult time waiting for these results. I don’t know what’s ahead of me. I am doing my best to remain positive.

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Thanks for the heads up about the pain from radiation. I will have to make sure that I have effective pain killers. I see they describe my radiation as "aggressive radiation" so I am not looking forward to this at all.

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@briancl

Thanks for the heads up about the pain from radiation. I will have to make sure that I have effective pain killers. I see they describe my radiation as "aggressive radiation" so I am not looking forward to this at all.

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My radiation was very aggressive too. I used a lot of Aquaphor on my skin and it helped to a point. The thing that helped most was a bidet. We bought one that fits right on your existing toilet. It has been a godsend and worth every penny. I had severe pain for about 2 weeks. I couldn’t have anything touching my skin. I am all healed now but still have some residual pain where the wounds were the worst. I had radiation enteritis for 2 months after that. It started about 2 weeks into treatment. I’m over that now but have a new issue. Now I’m dealing with fecal incontinence. I am so ready to feel normal again!

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@rioa21

My radiation was very aggressive too. I used a lot of Aquaphor on my skin and it helped to a point. The thing that helped most was a bidet. We bought one that fits right on your existing toilet. It has been a godsend and worth every penny. I had severe pain for about 2 weeks. I couldn’t have anything touching my skin. I am all healed now but still have some residual pain where the wounds were the worst. I had radiation enteritis for 2 months after that. It started about 2 weeks into treatment. I’m over that now but have a new issue. Now I’m dealing with fecal incontinence. I am so ready to feel normal again!

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Thanks for that information. Really helpful. This sounds like a tough journey but there is little choice I suppose. Sorry about the pain you had to endure, it sounds really rough. I absolutely get your comment about feeling normal again. I also can't wait.

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@drjohna

My journey started one year ago. I was diagnosed with stage 3 colon cancer at that time. I had surgery and 3 lymph nodes were positive. I had 6 months chemo with folfox. According to my oncologist. Your rate of cure rate with out chemo is 60 percent. With Chemo its 85 percent. I would not risk it without doing chemo. Chemo is not fun but I am happy to say I am done with it. My year anniversary scope was normal. BTW I am also a doctor and this has been the most humbling experience of my life.

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Good to hear that your treatment has been a success. I'm in my final chemo cycle of 4 x 3 week cycles having had one positive lymph node out of 23 removed. Definitely not fun having an infusion of Oxaliplatin on day 1 followed by two weeks of Xeloda (Capecitabine) but there's been a regular pattern of a tough first week (mainly constipation and tiredness) an easier second and an almost normal third with no pills. My oncologist also gave a 60% cure rate without chemo but improving to 75% with chemo. That persuaded me it was worth a try - see My Journey on this forum for more details.

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@not2ruthless

Thank you Colleen! I have been tempted to ask, but don't know how to ask or start another thread. What experiences people have had with oncologists and surgeons giving totally differing diagnoses? Does this happen regularly, e.g. NO, if continues to shrink don't see why surgery needed, versus YES, it will still be required. Does it mean that they just aren't communicating, or is it a differing philosophy of sciences. I mean I DO feel they are both very great at their jobs and experiences, but it kinda has driven me crazy. Actually, from the start! (Not first time.) I try to read between the lines and have patience, but wonder if am going nuts with my understanding of what each one said... and am pretty darn practical and non-judmental. Thoughts? Worthy of discussion? And/or????

p.s. regarding Keytruda after the 3rd treatment. I DID get briefly nauseous 2 days later and threw up just a tiny bit. Nothing else except a vague "spaciness" at times. I imagine accumulative effects can do this as time goes on. Will see.

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@not2ruthless, this must be very confusing when members of your cancer care team provide conflicting information. Often (usually?) the oncology team meet to discuss patients at meetings called tumor boards, and agree of the best course of treatment.

While not cancer specific, I think you'll appreciate this discussion:
- Navigating conflicting medical opinions to be your own advocate. https://connect.mayoclinic.org/discussion/navigating-conflicting-medical-oppinions-to-be-your-own-advocate/

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