@frances007 Sorry for all your struggles. It can be frustrating, especially when reaching out and getting no response. I prefer to use MyChart to communicate with my teams, and one has certainly been dropping the ball. When I don't get a response within 24 hours, I send another message and that usually does the trick.
As far as your PCP asking you if you want a different doctor, kindly say "yes, please" and move on. It's hard to find a doctor who checks all the boxes, (kind, concerned, knowledgeable, progressive), but keep searching.
Also, it's okay to take a moment to have a pity party/grieve. Just make sure you have someone close to pull you up out of it if you're concerned you won't be able to do it on your own.
This Connect blog has been very helpful for me, and I've only been on it a couple of weeks.
Hugs to you, and keep plowing forward!
I agree with you completely. I would add that if the My Chart email isn’t responded to, pick up the phone, and I realize how many options you may have before getting a person. Most larger offices have admins who filter and route all the incoming emails for the doctors; I had one awful office just unreliable with My Chart, especially when healthcare, even office workers, had staffing shortages. I felt bad leaving one doctor because “he” lost records and would reorder tests I’d already had, and I’d wasted much needed office visit time helping him remember me and finding my records; I lost 6 months of treatment time because his office staff supposedly didn’t follow up on getting referrals and the right labs ordered etc. One other doctor outright told me to CALL the office for anything I might need, as they rarely used the system. Others told me the best way to reach them IS through the system. I think the systems are being required now, but I know from experience how difficult it is to keep up with all of the computer and software changes over the years. If you think the system isn’t working / I’d call. On my My Chart, I see records of phone calls they make or receive, so I know they’ve been acknowledged.