I'm here because my dad has prostate cancer that has spread. He beat it 15 years ago and has been cancer free until about 6 months ago when his numbers were high. He's 90yrs old and the doctor says any treatment would be too much for him. He also has a fair amount of dementia/alzheimers. So he's to go back in 4 months. I feel so helpless. He's started not wanting to get.out of bed. He still has an appetite and will get up to eat that's about it. It just so hopeless.