Well Merry, at least you got your bathroom cleaned. You’re ahead of me, & you got a good laugh too. We steal the little moments now. A helpful comment I read from many people on my two caregiver sites is, Don’t beat yourself up about it.” I really appreciate that advice & am learning to take it to heart. We are doing a very difficult job for which we had little to no training & it won’t end until the men we love leave us forever. So I say, “Let’s cut ourselves some slack,” at least today, to be our own valentines!