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Downsizing, To Move or Not to Move? That is the Question

Aging Well | Last Active: Mar 23 9:13pm | Replies (473)

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@cmdw2600

My husband and I made the move from a four bedroom colonial to an attached condo (four units to a building-common wall but no one above or below) five years ago. He has Parkinson’s so we decided it would be prudent to have a first floor bedroom for the future. I’ve been through breast cancer so we also felt that if either one of us passed, the other would be able to live comfortably in this home.

There are 20 units total-five buildings of four-and all exterior maintenance and snow removal is taken care of. We had the lower level finished so that we can have space from one another when we choose and also so that we can provide lodging for out of town guests. The back is wooded and I truly feel like it’s a vacation home. I can spend my days doing more of what I want instead of have to.

When the time comes that either of us needs care, we will have to make another move or have someone come in. My community does not offer step up care. We are now 70 and 72 and I am hopeful we can remain where we are for a long time.

One point I’d like to make is that financially it’s apples to oranges. We thought we’d bank a little money from the sale of house, but in reality the condo cost the same even though it’s 1000 square feet smaller and has a two car garage instead of three. A person has to get over that mental hurdle or the move won’t happen.

I couldn’t be happier or more grateful that we moved when we did!

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@cmdw2600. You have done some pretty solid thinking and you know that what works today may not work tomorrow. We have 7 landscaped acres on a river. Just the maintenance of all those nooks and crannies through four seasons is a full-time job and a bit costly. We gave up a second mountain-top home because all we did was manage properties and medical services were located 45 miles down the mountain. Now.....we are wondering if we kept the best option.

I do want to compliment you on your design efforts. Quite lovely! Did you choose all new furnishings?

May you have happiness and the causes of happiness.
Chris

Love your new place. It seems to have a great deal of natural light but most importantly, and I need to hear it, is that you wisely said to get over the mental hurdles involved with moving or it doesn't happen...so very true. Good luck to you in this bright new chapter in your lives.