← Return to Aging and Hearing Loss: Can You Talk About It?

Discussion

Aging and Hearing Loss: Can You Talk About It?

Aging Well | Last Active: Mar 10, 2023 | Replies (62)

Comment receiving replies
@hawkssr

So agree! My dad had hearing loss and it was so stressful since he wouldn’t acknowledge it. If you weren’t looking right at him talking loudly he couldn’t hear you. I worried about him driving. We’d be out to eat and friends would go by and speak to him but it was the old “nod and smile” answer. After a couple years of ignoring the family he one day decided he needed hearing aids 🤷🏼‍♀️

Jump to this post


Replies to "So agree! My dad had hearing loss and it was so stressful since he wouldn’t acknowledge..."

@hawkssr

That’s a happy ending. As for driving, Deaf people drive all the time. Those of us who have certain degrees of loss and the culturally Deaf are probably the most careful drivers around. We use our eyes more and are habitually looking for emergency vehicles and generally don’t have music blasting. I have a profound loss but I do hear emergency sirens when they are closer rather than afar. I bet I can spot them before a normal hearing person can. I can hear certain sounds on my dashboard like the turn signals and seatbelt reminders. All these sounds seem to be within my very narrow range of hearing.
I would be more worried about dad’s eyesight as he ages. As for speaking loudly…that’s usually not the way to address someone who has a hearing loss. It’s better to face that person and speak directly and not too fast. And we generally can’t hear if you whisper in our ear.
There are many free speech to text apps that he can use to help him along in his daily interactions and also the cell phone app Innocaption+.

FL Mary