Thank you for your post, your suggestions and encouragement.
It seems that you have been a loving caregiver.
He has had symptoms of both for several years and his diagnosis is three years old.
We purchased an adjustable bed and he’s getting used to it but often positions himself so close to the end of the bed that it’s ineffective.
I’m currently researching home care, just a few hours a week for companionship for him and a break for me. Its unfortunate that cost drives such decisions, isn’t it.
Thanks,
Jan