Yeah that’s tough. Another reason we made Mayo work logistically. We ran into that with the first doctor we saw and we’re rudely just told “that’s not how it works” you can’t get your instructions from Mayo then just expect us to do it here. When I tried to explain I was looking for a local team that would partner with Mayo so we could weigh the option plans together I was again met with resistance and very much a “it’s our way or the highway” mentality. The nurse was outright rude about it and acted like we were the biggest inconvenience she had ever experienced. This was at the University of Nebraska Medical Center Buffet Cancer Center in Omaha NE by “Marie”, the head nurse assigned to Dr. Jean Grem. Warning for anyone reading this who happens to be in Omaha. I think if we would have stayed there for our cancer care my wife would either already be dead or not have a shot at living cancer free, ever. If your local provider is already giving you resistance and you haven’t even started care that should be a giant red flag as to how they would treat you if you were under their care. Avoid at all costs.