Xeloda for colon cancer - Scared about side effects and need support

Posted by leed2022 @leed2022, Dec 8, 2022

Hello, I was diagnosed with stage 3A colon cancer after surgery because 1 lymph node out of 35 came back with cancer. I am supposed to start Xeloda in a couple of weeks for 6 months, and worry about how I will function working from home, taking care of my two little dogs, and living with the side effects. I am all alone and very scared, and would appreciate knowing how others dealt with taking Xeloda and how they managed through the process. Thank you.

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Hello. I hope you're still tolerating your treatment ok and that your back is better. I've updated my 'journey' elsewhere on the forum which details the difficult start to my second cycle. No constipation yet, and no sickness / nausea, but managing bowel movements seems to be the main issue for the first 3 days. Otherwise, tingly /cold hands again but I can live with that. Hopefully feel better tomorrow.

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Checking in with you to see how you are doing on your treatment.

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@martin77

Hello. I hope you're still tolerating your treatment ok and that your back is better. I've updated my 'journey' elsewhere on the forum which details the difficult start to my second cycle. No constipation yet, and no sickness / nausea, but managing bowel movements seems to be the main issue for the first 3 days. Otherwise, tingly /cold hands again but I can live with that. Hopefully feel better tomorrow.

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Hello, I'm sorry you are having issues with the second cycle. I do hope things get better as you continue the process. I had a miserable several days during my second week, so the doctor recommended using a stool softener (as opposed to a laxative), and I added about 1/4 cup of prune juice (warmed). A neighbor who is a retired nurse told me how she dealt with patients in the hospital who had constipation, and the doctors used Colace gentle stool softener and a little warmed prune juice as I mentioned above. Just once a day, but it also takes a couple of days to get things moving. That did provide much needed relief. She also told me it is better to warm up your water and fluids before drinking because it helps warm up the colon. I've been doing that too. I started my week off as of today, and am so glad constipation problem has been resolved for the moment. I spoke with my oncology nurse this morning who said when I start the next cycle, I can take a stool softener daily to prevent the constipation, so I may do that after the first day and see how my system reacts. I just don't want to cause the opposite problem. I may check with the chemo nurse on this. Let me know how things are going as you continue this cycle, and I will let you know how I am doing when I start again next Monday. All the Best!

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@leed2022

Hello, I'm sorry you are having issues with the second cycle. I do hope things get better as you continue the process. I had a miserable several days during my second week, so the doctor recommended using a stool softener (as opposed to a laxative), and I added about 1/4 cup of prune juice (warmed). A neighbor who is a retired nurse told me how she dealt with patients in the hospital who had constipation, and the doctors used Colace gentle stool softener and a little warmed prune juice as I mentioned above. Just once a day, but it also takes a couple of days to get things moving. That did provide much needed relief. She also told me it is better to warm up your water and fluids before drinking because it helps warm up the colon. I've been doing that too. I started my week off as of today, and am so glad constipation problem has been resolved for the moment. I spoke with my oncology nurse this morning who said when I start the next cycle, I can take a stool softener daily to prevent the constipation, so I may do that after the first day and see how my system reacts. I just don't want to cause the opposite problem. I may check with the chemo nurse on this. Let me know how things are going as you continue this cycle, and I will let you know how I am doing when I start again next Monday. All the Best!

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Sorry to hear of your not dissimilar experience but it sounds as if things are improving. The pattern could well be a difficult first few days and then gradual improvement until a new cycle starts. Yes, keeping everything warm helps a great deal. I'm feeling better today and so I hope tomorrow continues this trend. Hope you're still able to get out with your dogs. Best wishes. Martin

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I had rectal cancer eight years ago. Before I had the surgery.One oncologist gave me the Xeloda And radiation.To shrink the tumor.That put me in the hospital for two weeks very severe diarrhea. Couldn’t eat it was horrible. After that I went to Moffitt cancer center which is in Tampa Florida. It was the best decision. I could not tolerate Xeloda Or maybe it was the radiation but I didn’t do that again. I had to wait six weeks to heal before I had surgery I’m sure there are people who can tolerate that drug but my new oncologist wouldn’t give me that to do and I had a successful surgery. I can’t say there are no problems but I’ve dealt with all of them with a good attitude very important

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@philly318

I had rectal cancer eight years ago. Before I had the surgery.One oncologist gave me the Xeloda And radiation.To shrink the tumor.That put me in the hospital for two weeks very severe diarrhea. Couldn’t eat it was horrible. After that I went to Moffitt cancer center which is in Tampa Florida. It was the best decision. I could not tolerate Xeloda Or maybe it was the radiation but I didn’t do that again. I had to wait six weeks to heal before I had surgery I’m sure there are people who can tolerate that drug but my new oncologist wouldn’t give me that to do and I had a successful surgery. I can’t say there are no problems but I’ve dealt with all of them with a good attitude very important

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Hello Philly318. Good to hear that you've made a good recovery from your treatment - sounds as if it was all worthwhile despite the problems encountered. It seems we are all experiencing a difficult path at times but a positive attitude is so important as you say. I'm half way through my second 3 week cycle of Oxaliplatin + Xeloda which has proved very tough compared to the first cycle but looking forward to a week's 'holiday' from this Thursday coming!
Leed2022 - how are you doing at present?
Best wishes.

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@martin77

Hello Philly318. Good to hear that you've made a good recovery from your treatment - sounds as if it was all worthwhile despite the problems encountered. It seems we are all experiencing a difficult path at times but a positive attitude is so important as you say. I'm half way through my second 3 week cycle of Oxaliplatin + Xeloda which has proved very tough compared to the first cycle but looking forward to a week's 'holiday' from this Thursday coming!
Leed2022 - how are you doing at present?
Best wishes.

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Just to let you know that when I started chemo it felt very good but as I continued it started not to feel good and I was told that it builds up and at the end it was not great at all but I live through it and sometimes I wonder how did I ever live through all of it but I did. I am going through some problems now which is why I went on the site to see if anybody else has the same things going on and it’s really funny ha ha that what we mostly talk about is our bowel movements lol but that’s what I’m having a problem with at the moment. So what can I say it’s a pain in the ass lol
Hope you stay well. Please keep in touch

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@philly318

Just to let you know that when I started chemo it felt very good but as I continued it started not to feel good and I was told that it builds up and at the end it was not great at all but I live through it and sometimes I wonder how did I ever live through all of it but I did. I am going through some problems now which is why I went on the site to see if anybody else has the same things going on and it’s really funny ha ha that what we mostly talk about is our bowel movements lol but that’s what I’m having a problem with at the moment. So what can I say it’s a pain in the ass lol
Hope you stay well. Please keep in touch

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Ho ho. Yes it is funny how strangers from opposite sides of the world can find that discussing bowel movements, stool softeners and laxatives is something that can bring them closer together!

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@martin77

Ho ho. Yes it is funny how strangers from opposite sides of the world can find that discussing bowel movements, stool softeners and laxatives is something that can bring them closer together!

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I have also found that the older we get although I don’t consider myself old the more we talk about constipation diarrhea and bowel movements lol and it’s not just with people who have had cancer that I have this discussion it’s with friends and acquaintances I think there’s something wrong with this 😂 You would think that they’d be something more important going on in our lives however maybe not. Have a great evening

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@martin77

Sorry to hear of your not dissimilar experience but it sounds as if things are improving. The pattern could well be a difficult first few days and then gradual improvement until a new cycle starts. Yes, keeping everything warm helps a great deal. I'm feeling better today and so I hope tomorrow continues this trend. Hope you're still able to get out with your dogs. Best wishes. Martin

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Hello, how have you been doing since our last post to each other? I just finished my week off and started back on Xeloda this morning for my 2nd round. I hope that things will go better this time, but at least I am more prepared in case I get the first sign of a problem. I also start back to work today, but at least I work from home, so that in itself is a great blessing. If I am correct, this coming Thursday you will finish your second week for this cycle and then have another week off, yes? I do hope things have been better for you this time around. Let me know the latest when you get a chance, and I will do the same. Wishing you the very best.

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