Hi there all

I am new to this group, a husband with my wife (just turned 50) diagnosed with ILC, and similar to a recent post, we have our first appointment tomorrow to get all the final detailed results after the MRI, Mammograms, and scan. We have been advised its in the lymph nodes as well but of course more details tomorrow.

Again any pointers on what to ask whilst we are there.. also how open and honest are they actually about the diagnosis, the outlook and the reality of it all.. did people find in general they are totally honest and open about it.. ? We have 2 youngish children.. so of course like everyone i guess we need to know all...