I get what you're saying but have a different take on it. I'm retired and for the first time in my life I'm free to do what I like. Working full time, running a busy household and raising two active boys was challenge enough me. Lately my biggest challenge is to getting up and out early enough to catch the first tour at the Met and you know what if I don't make it I just have that second cup of coffee and read the papers. So, I guess what I'm saying is "Different strokes for different folks"...good luck !