Here on Connect we are not doctors, but rather patients and caregivers. We don't offer diagnosis or interpret test results, rather we support one another in our journeys, and sometimes offer suggestions for dealing with your care team.
I know it is difficult to look at test results and not understand all the numbers.
But Colleen and your doctors are correct, you can "worry yourself sick". There is another thing you can do - treat yourself to the very best diet and lifestyle that you can as the doctors seek answers for you.
I notice you mentioned both drinking wine and vaping- these can make gastrointestinal pain worse, so maybe stop them completely until you know where the problem is? Also pay attention to whether certain foods, soda, caffeine, or an irregular schedule bring on symptoms. Finally, get good exercise - even a brisk walk each day, and do things that make you happy.
Do you have a pet who gives you comfort? A favorite movie or music that relaxes you?
Can you let me know if you are open to trying these strategies?
Sue