Several weeks ago, my husband and I (we are both members of this blog) saw a post by a member whose husband of 45 years, went for the whipple procedure, only to have it canceled because of spread. Now, we are in the same position. After being diagnosed as stage 2 in early March, having gone thru 6 months of chemo and 6 weeks of radiation, the whipple was scheduled for Dec. 9. An hour and a half after the surgery started, I received a call from the OR that they were not doing the whipple because of 3 small spots on the stomach lining. Surgery still lasted for 5 hours for removal of gall bladder and rerouting of the bile duct etc., but the tumor was left behind. Needless to say, we are devasted after all these months of positive hopefullness. We, too, are married 45 years, so the story resonated with us. Is there a chance we could connect with that posting again, since we can't find it now. We are coming to Mayo Clinic in January for a 2nd opinion. Up until now, we have been going to Froedtert in MKE., Wis.