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@randywhite

Some thoughts regarding posted replies, on occasion we need to consider:
DIE=Describe Interpret Evaluate a process designed for promoting better understanding
So, the ‘DESCRIBE’ is how we would record the objective facts of an exchange, not the perception as that is subjective
INTERPRET…that is how we interpret an exchange, and could be that:
The ‘poster’ is well meaning to positively impact or maybe defend something, or by extension have an unusual sensitivity
They are personally impacted and/or offended by remarks for unknown reasons
They may have needed some destinations for an ANT (automatic negative thought) and choose a ‘whoever’ this morning
They may have presumed an intention on our part, but perhaps the presumption is wrong -maybe could be unpacked by ‘that landed on me wrong, what did you intend by that?’
EVALUATE…that is what I deduce depending upon which Interpretation is taken:
The reply poster may be this that or the next thing, maybe angry, sad, carries personal bias, or needs some object to attack.
Y’all’s thoughts?
I do occasionally look like the posted picture here, usually when I’m on the slopes having fun; am I nuts? Audacious, or enjoying the company of grandkids on slopes?

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I am a reply poster who values HIPAA, people have the right to personal privacy. And I think you look great on the slopes in your photo! Keep enjoying life!