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Depression & Anxiety | Last Active: Jan 8, 2023 | Replies (48)
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Hi again, netter9064! Well, do you know why some doctors and some psychiatrists do not mention that these medicines can cause a big weight gain? Sad to say, I believe it is because 1) they (or their dear ones) are NOT the ones taking these medicines. 2) Often, because of pure negligence or ignorance, they are not even aware of the side effects. 3) They (I know this is hard to take, but still) simply DO NOT care. - The reason for me saying this, is that I have noticed (on more occasions) that they give up on us patients, even before listening carefully to what we are about to say. I have experienced saying to more than one doctor that I am so sick many months in a row in the course of any given year since I, unfortunately, suffer tremendously because of Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (to the extent that sometimes even making a simple phone call is a cause of huge stress and feels like having to climb Mount Everest). They listen somewhat, but after I have explained how my days are (miserable), they either say nothing or tell me that I am depressed (I bet I am! How would they be if they were so weak every single day for 6-7-8 months and they were not living but only merely surviving?) A few of these doctors have had the guts to tell me that they have never heard of these symptoms before (which is really bad :<( since I have just told them.) If they only had been a little more interested in learning something new, that they don't know or at least had owned a little curiosity (if not empathy!), they surely should have made the effort of trying listening more carefully (and afterward perhaps do some research (?) - which, of course, also would require some extra time - and time is money, so why bother?). I have even met a couple of doctors who (instead of just admitting that they know nothing about CFS) say "You know, there are many doctors who do not believe in CFS" (and obviously they themselves belong to the incompetent & arrogant category). This respectless behavior on their part makes me feel as if I was some sort of a charlatan who is inventing things just for the heck of it.
Sorry, netter9064, this is longer than I intended. I hope I haven't taken up too much of your time.