I am new to this domain and only have to contend with an MCI wife. So this from a ‘rookie’ in these matters.
What struck me, is the driving.
“ he thinks he has houses in another state … and he goes there often …He thinks he has seen people…”
If an unfit driver (just to be morbid for a moment) thinks he has seen something or maybe missed something and runs over a child because he missed seeing the child, while distracted seeing something that was NOT there. Then what do y’all say to the child’s parents??
I would check with the Police on that, and maybe how to limit you father’s driving. Maybe police know something we don’t.
Randy