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Downsizing, To Move or Not to Move? That is the Question

Aging Well | Last Active: Mar 23 9:13pm | Replies (473)

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@sueinmn

Oh, yes definitely true. I spend my winters in a community of part-time and full-time wanderers and nomads, as well as people who move seasonally between RV's/tiny homes and other homes. They have encouraged me to shed "stuff" in favor of friends and experiences. It has been freeing and almost exhiliarating.

We are beginning to really assess each possession and acquisition. Every cupboard, shelf and box I empty frees me. Whenever we replace a possession, we give away or donate the item (and try to throw in a bit more!)

Today we visited an art fair, where many things caught our attention, but left with only greeting cards and tiny hand painted note pads to give as gifts.

When we give gifts to our kids/grands we focus on services they cannot afford or experiences. State park memberships, a housecleaner for a busy young family, trips to plays or concerts... This helps to avoid accumulation in their lives.
Sue

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We downsized from 2800 square foot house to a 1300 square cabin on the lake. My mantra became, if there is not a place for it and a purpose for it, it has to go. But everytime I drive up to this cute little house I fall in love with it all over again. It truly is not stuff that makes you happy.

@sueinmn Like you, i have been downsizing possessions whenever possible. My neighbor seems to be just the opposite, bringing more and more things home. I do not access her home very often, but it is probably not my imagination it is full of "stuff". Last time it seemed full to me, and she has brought home at least two more china cabinets, and bought more purple glass!

Your idea of gifting services is great, and I bet much appreciated.
Ginger