Sadly, the Catholic Churches in Iowa are only beginning to accept and understand mental illness. I don't act out, but was abused by my parents since a small child. The neglect never ended. I was a freak in a small town. Thank God for a loving room-mate. Thank you for helping your friend. I'm still looking for a companion. I have severe ulcerative colitis also. Can't eat when I go out. Lots of stuff, but God is always with me thru it all. Wish we could meet! We're both special. Maria.