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Spouse with cognitive problems and finances

Caregivers: Dementia | Last Active: Dec 30, 2022 | Replies (290)

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@billchitwood

This morning he was very agitated. Was sure I no longer loved him. That I was spending all of our money. That I didn't bring him a custard filled donut (I had the other day and he wouldn't eat it and said not to get more lol). He was going to report me for being cruel. I didn't offer him enough breakfast options (French Toast; waffles; pancakes; cereal; eggs fixed any way he would like them; Cheese Danish; muffins, etc.) - he finally decided on fried eggs on toast and hot chocolate.

By now he is back to loving me and eating his breakfast.

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I understand what you are describing. He can say such awful things to me during the day, but every morning and evening, he always gives me a big kiss and says “I love you.”