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@lovingwifeterry, I add my welcome and would underline the caring response you got from @mayoconnectuser1. Have you considered getting a second opinion at MD Anderson or Mayo Clinic?
Terry:
This is Deb, wife of Tom, also 45 years. We have a very similar story. Tom was diagnosed in early March with what they said was a stage 2 tumor on the head of the pancreas. He endured 2 months of Folfirinox (which failed) and 4 months of Gem/Abraxine, which did lower the CA19-9 from 800 down to the 200s. We were so looking forward to the Whipple on Dec. 9 at Froedtert in Milwaukee. Devasted to receive a call from the OR that they found 3 tiny spots on the stomach lining, therefore, they abandoned the whipple. 5 hours of surgery to remove the gallbladder, reroute the bile duct etc. All they are suggesting now is more Gem/Abraxine. We are also looking for better alternatives! Going to speak with UW Carbone in Madison, WI and an inperson appt at Mayo in Rochester on the 17th of January.
lovingwifeterry,
I think what you're feeling is local medical teams providing the normal standards of care approach, combined with significant statistical knowledge concerning the daunting and horrible effects of pancreatic cancer.
I believe these medical professionals are as traumatized as you are by this disease.
Once metastasis occurs outside the pancreas and perhaps formal restaging to Stage IV occurs, they know there is little to be done except, in many cases, return to chemo to buy a little bit more time.
What does his CA 19-9 trend indicate?