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Recurrence of gynecological cancer

Gynecologic Cancers | Last Active: Aug 8, 2023 | Replies (32)

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@jeanadair123

I had exactly the exactly the same but stage 2. Doctor told me there was a 1% chance of recurrence. Is there such a thing when you are in the 1% group? Might as well be 100%.
I had robotic surgery same 2009 recurrence in 2017.
Never thought for a minute it would come back. I went to Sacramento, Stanford and the Mayo Clinic and decided to get my treatment at Stanford being the best treatment and location for me.
In March It will be 5 years. I had the original radiation at Stanford and was told normally if the cancer would recur it would be within 2 years. Things I have learned make sure you get a good gynecologist oncologist one who will listen. I had my original surgery in Texas, 5 years later we moved to California. Needing a new gyno oncologist I did my research, I went to three oncologist after the initial surgery none of these drs used a speculum, I just kept changing drs until one did and she even said that she doesn’t normally use a speculum but would, she was the fourth dr who found it. Had I not been so persistent, who knows where I would be today.
I am still using my dilator which I hope you are? I am now only using it 2 days a week which is great after everyday. I did get a couple of UTI’s at the beginning and one doctor said to try getting a shower before I used it that has helped no uti since. I also purchased different dilators the ones issues at Stanford were basic and very hard.I also used several gels before I found a good one.
Hope this helps. Just know you are not alone, through different groups I have found that a lot of women have had recurrence so maybe someone needs to adjust the stats for recurrence form 1%. Good luck. ,message me anytime if you have questions?

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@jeanadair123

My gyn-oncologist told me there was a 95% survival rate for my diagnosis over 5 years. I took that to mean the chances of recurrence was 5% or less - not the same as survival, I know. She also told me that if I had a recurrence it would most likely be within the first few years and would be found in the vaginal cuff on physical exam. This was in answer to my question of what would follow-up be like. Would I have regular scans? No, no scans on those initial follow-up exams. After the recurrence in 2021 I have a physical exam with a speculum and CT scan.

I cannot figure out why an oncologist (or gyn-oncologist?) would not do a physical exam with a speculum. It's so good that you were persistent with your request.

Like you I purchased different dilators than what I was given at Mayo after I finished radiation therapy. I use dilators that are soft and have a more natural feel to them. I have also used a few different lubricants and gels until I found one I liked. I use it two times a week and have "graduated" to a larger one over time. So I guess what I'm doing is working.

How are you doing overall, @jeanadair123? How are you feeling?

I hope this helps other women who read this. We absolutely must advocate for ourselves. Because no one else will do it for us.