Surgeon recommended lumpectomy - referred to data supporting that decision. I'm waiting for genetic tests given family history but have surgery scheduled in two weeks (OR's are backed up and if I didn't take that I would have to wait until end of Dec). If all goes well, radiation and then anti hormone like you all mentioned. Praying for clean margins. Oncologist mentioned most lobulars are grade 2 given how sneaky they are; chemo still on table as pathology reports seem critical post -op. Thx for all support. At 57 yrs I dread telling my 24 and 22 year olds but will do this weekend - the surgeon made it sound like I feel would good in a few days -but in my experience, recovery is also understated by surgeons:).xoxoox