Hi!
You are what used to be called "a gentleman." There used to be a lot of them around. I'm a 76 year old female and I remember "gentlemen". They were polite, fun to go places with and always treated you with respect. I married one and we are very happy! Sometimes it just takes longer for some people to find real love. I didn't meet my husband until I was in my 40's. You are not weird or strange. In fact, you sound like a very nice person. It's society that is weird and strange these days. Give your concerns up to God. He is good at handling those things.
PML