I believe that a big reason I am able to be so independent at age 88 started many years ago. I am an immigrant to this country. I came in 1958 by myself. I found a job and a place to live. It wasn't until a year later that I met the man who was to become my husband. So being strong, having to fend for myself came early to me. I do not physically feel my age, which is a great plus. My doctor agreed that for my age I am in very good shape. The big elephant in the room is that even though I feel good, logic says there are not that many years left.