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Thrashing In His Sleep

Caregivers: Dementia | Last Active: Nov 4, 2022 | Replies (12)

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Bill ended up in the hospital again, this time with C.Diff (major bleeding and diarrhea). They put him on Vancomycin before releasing him after a couple of days. In tests it showed anemia; malnutrition, blood problems (which could have been exasperated by the C.Diff infection); nodules on lungs (test for previous Valley Fever showed negative); some mild calcification of the aorta valve; mild aneurism in that area as well; and lesion on tail of pancreas. Kids do not think he is in any danger as all findings seem to be in the 'mild' range. One heck of a lot of 'mid' problems to my way of thinking. He has lost over 5% of body weight in a month. Now coughing and having problems swallowing. No apatite. Family doctor advised to follow up with CT or MRI in 3 to 6 months on lungs and pancreas. Has an appointment with family doctor on the 11th.
At least the diarrhea has stopped (he had problems getting to the bathroom in time). Is receiving some more home health - which he resists. He finally consented to a shower yesterday after refusing for over 4 months (he would use shower wipes only). Even hospital or NH couldn't get him into the shower!
Has been angry/grumpy more lately (thank heavens for Seroquel - which has helped a lot).
A few days before ER/Hospital he fell backwards into the tub - required another 911 call as I couldn't get him out.
I'm thinking cumulative effect of so many 'mild' problems is not good - and kids are holding out 'mild' as a lodestone that there really isn't anything wrong. Thinks 162 looks good on his 6 foot frame (he is almost down to skin and bones). Yesterday slight swelling of his ankles. Kids really don't want to talk about symptoms.

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Your children don’t want to see the reality of his condition, possibly in denial, because they aren’t ready to accept his poor health.
So sad that He is in such terrible shape! I’m sorry he has so many health problems and a bad attitude - that makes everything worse! Maybe next time he needs to go to the ER, call an 911 instead and then he will be in the hospital and will be tested for his ailments and may be entered for observation or whatever. You can ask for tests from your doctors whenever you feel it is necessary. You see what others cannot see, you are his eyes for him. I believe he should be in the hospital. You and Robin must be a nervous wreck with all of this going on. I pray you both are taking care of yourselves and finding some comfort.

Julie, How is Seroquel helping?