It is so difficult to even make the decision. We have been here nearly 40 years, only a few original neighbors left, but the same thing that drew us then is still here, but more so. The surroundings are lovely through the seasons and convenient. But the house and gardens are for someone younger, with stairs everywhere, and lots of outdoor tasks.

When we came home from our tiny house in the Spring, I was really ready for less - space, yard, work, stuff...
So we have begun to clear away, bit by bit - just seeing more cleared out space makes me rest easier. And each time we clear an area, it makes us look for the next one to do...
We put out the word that we are looking for the ideal property, but aren't in any hurry. I realize now that I need a small plot of land to have a few plants and a place to relax, so we know we need a townhome.
I have begun to locate people to help with tasks we no longer can or wish to do. Fortunately, the paid for house means we have a little to spend for those services.

Sue

@alison0 It really is such a difficult decision. Our hearts want to stay where we are but our heads tell us there are so many reasons to downsize. If you have a large home the upkeep must get expensive, even just heating it must cost a lot, I know it does for us. We have been in our home for 35 years so part of our problem is the accumulation of "things". Our kids are married and live in different states but much of their "stuff" is still here.

If we ever do manage to get rid of stuff and move the one difficult thing will be we will probably move to a smaller home in a development with an HOA (Homeowner's Association to take care of some general upkeep outside). Most of those homes are two bedrooms and although our kids are not often here at the same time they generally are twice a year for a short time each time. That will be much more difficult in a two bedroom home.

I understand how you feel. Not having to deal with stairs will be helpful though and you need to put yourself first.
JK

I have a ranch, bedrooms all on one floor but I'm still thinking of a retirement community. Why, well for one thing the community and house are designed with an eye toward an aging individual. What that means is everything is flat, no steps or stairs anywhere which is great for a walker or wheelchair. Also bathrooms have several grab bars and usually a shower that is handicap accessible. Doorways are also wide enough to get a wheelchair/hospital bed through. Now this is not to say that you will be in a wheelchair but accidents happen and it's nice to know that your home can accommodate your every need without doing last minute renovations. The community is also designed to be supportive, in that they usually take care of all snow removal, grass cutting etc. and have a center where you can meet others in your situation. Well, that's it for me...I wish you all the best !