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His occupation is accounting. He lives in another state. I’m 85 and unable to go there and help him. My therapist(family) wants me to go to Alananon I will, but really how will That help me?

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@talbot Alanon is an adjunct 12-step program to Alcoholics Anonymous, attended by family and friends of alcoholics and drug addicts. I have not attended these meetings, but have heard that they can offer guidance on how to deal with/live with those affected by substance abuse.

Perhaps an honest conversation with your son regarding his employment situation, what might be keeping him from holding onto a job and how he can remedy that, will help you both. At some point we have to make a decision to "sink or swim", as much as it hurts us. I have known several people who decided to not carry their child financially, and that youngster needed that push to stand on their own two feet. I sincerely hope that the funds you are sending him are not cutting in to your own life, and ability to care for yourself [food and necessities]?
Ginger