← Return to Emotional health after cancer: How are you doing really?

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@remington

WOW! Talk about a Higher Power at work! Just 20 minutes ago I answered the Connect survey and said I needed more emotional support and this 3 year old thread pops up.
I received my advanced prostate cancer diagnosis almost a year ago, started hormone therapy in Dec, radiation in Feb, and second hormone in July. Radiation went very well and I actually was extremely positive about everything until about two months ago. While it appears the cancer may actually be under control I am having trouble dealing with the side effects of treatment. I'm always tired, sever joint pain, some minor cognitive issues, weight gain, urinary problems.... On top of it I really don't trust my urologist. Her treatment plan is working but she didn't communicate well to prep me for what laid ahead.
With all of the doctors I've seen it was my primary physician who noticed I seemed depressed and discussed possible treatments.
Being a 68yo male unable to do so many things I used to enjoy has been stressful. I'm glad I may have found a new outlet to discuss my feelings.
This is going to be an unpopular opinion, but please be careful about bringing companion pets into health care facilities. Many people are highly allergic to animals and don't expect to go to a clean environment only to be made sick by someone's pet.

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Hello @remington,

You bring up such a good point! Cancer patients (or any patients dealing with chronic illnesses) have a change in lifestyle and need a place to discuss those feelings of uncertainty and frustration.

Cancer causes a change in our perspective. Whereas, we might have had physical outlets for stress, we now find ourselves needing to schedule social and physical activities around treatment appointments and the reality of fatigue.

As you are comfortable sharing and kicking off this discussion: What has been the biggest change for you?

I am 66 and due for my second Folferinox tomorrow, but I feel ok today, but know that I will feel terrible for several days. I feel like I have to do everything I can today before tomorrow. But, I can't do everything, and it's hard because I am task oriented. I have get used to relying on others, and that's hard, too. It's a big unwanted lifestyle change for sure. Best wishes.