Greetings mjennison: Sorry to hear about your husband's diagnosis... but it's good news that he is a candidate for The Whipple. It's my understanding that only 15% of PC patients are candidates.
I was diagnosed in March 2022 with PC....stage 2. I'll be 69 in November and for the most part....in good health. Recently finished 6 months of chemo (which I tolerated fairly well), just started radiation/chemo treatments that will go for another 5.5 weeks. I then meet with my oncology surgeon (Dr. Douglas Evan, Froedtert Hospital, Milwaukee, WI) for follow up. If all is well, The Whipple will take place early December. I've read that the recovery time is lengthy.... but that's Ok.....golf season doesn't start here in WI until April/May, and I won't be in any shape or mood to travel to the Sunshine state.
One thing that concerns me a is that during my 6 months of chemo, my tumor did not shrink. My doctor is not at all concerned about this. He said there's an outer shell around the tumor so on the CT scan it will still show a similar size but the cancer cells inside do get eliminated.....sure hope so. My CA19-9 started at 318 in March, then elevated to 813 after 5 treatments of Folfirinox, then decreased to 207 at the conclusion of the 6 months of chemo. BTW....the Folfirinox was not working so in May, my oncologist switched me to Gemcitabine/Abraxane.
Best of luck to husband. I know you, as a spouse have a tough job ahead of you.....hang in there. My bride of 45 years has been at my side every step of the way. She's a wonderful person; God has blessed with her.....she is strong and has a very positive attitude!
Thank you so much for sharing your story. Your treatment sounds similar to what we will be going through and I admire your (and your bride's) positive "can-do" attitude. Best of luck to you on your journey and that all is well for the Whipple in December.