Hello Teresa.
Thank you for your quick response. Much appreciated. Right now. Unfortunately. It feels like the doctors are stating that the paralyzed diaphragm is the main (and only) reason for her difficulty breathing and being on the ventilator. We are hoping and thinking that there could be other contributing factors involved. We are hoping to explore other options and ideas such as:
1. Could the compression of the phrenic nerve be more an inflammatory response related to the recent chemo treatment?
2. Any chance this could settle down more quickly than we would expect given the onset appeared so sudden?
3. Is there any value for the role of IV steroids if any of this is related to inflammation?
4. Any chance she has had a paralyzed diaphragm for a while and we were unaware?
5. Possibility of diaphragm pacing system.
We have yet to see a pulmonologist yet.
The only real thing they have told us thus far is that we can attempt to give her more chemo/immunotherapy/gene therapy to attempt to shrink the tumor to relieve the pressure on the phrenic nerve. But they feel this would most likely require a trach and external ventilator for breathing support.
My mom is on some sedation medicine right now. So she is somewhat aware and responsive. And can give yes and no answers. But we know as her children, she does not want machines keeping her alive. It is difficult.
Thank you again for any support. We are hoping to talk more with the doctors and gather more information to help make the best decisions moving forward.
This is a most difficult time for which, in my experience, there is no escape.
I hope everyone is able to be present and express their goodbyes.
I am in Texas and here most hospitals have a social worker on staff to guide families at this time and to help explain options and resources.
Holding your family in my heart.
Your friend in Texas