My son sometimes freaks out too. I took him to the doctor and we tried Straterra. That helped a lot. My son doesn't live with me. He lives in a group home and goes to a day program. He does visit us often on Sundays. But to tell you the truth - he is ready to go home at 9 o'clock. There are two guys living with my son. Their parents also made decision to let their sons move to a group home too. Would you consider letting your son live in a group home?