@rainyp OK is good. Under such circumstances, if you're anxious, having trouble sleeping, then that's OK too. It makes sense to me, anyway. It's great that the GYNOncologist has an office closer to you and is affiliated with a hospital you respect. I did the same as you. I waited until I knew more before I started telling anyone in my family. I did tell my partner, though, as it would have been hard to hide my worry from him. And I wanted his support. Of course he was so worried that I wanted to support him!

Yup, all is good today. And please do come back here and let me know if you have questions or need a virtual hand to hold.