It is important to stay independent. I have been looking into those independent living places. They are tiny. I wouldn't have any of my things around me. They aren't even big enough for me to bring my own bed. I make a point of asking this question when I talk with the sales people. I am trying to do everything I can to stay in my own home. I do everything except the heavy cleaning. I will be 88 in 13 days. I try to keep my mind engaged. Depending on how much longer I have to live, I may have to go into assisted living. So that's what I am doing now. I visited one facility. It was not as bad as I feared. At least I could get my bed in it. I have plans to visit two more. Then I will leave instructions for whomever will have to take care of me. Hopefully this will never happen.