My husband with stage 4 aggresive prostate cancer , spread to his lymph nodes , 2 places in his hip and its spread to his liver he hardly talks about it ,, i did make him sit down and tell me who he wants his things to go to , and got some phone numbers out of him ,, he bought a will pack but hasnt written it yet which worries me as our house would be left to me ,, but he dosent say anything ,, i have to make sure he has enough meds as he dosent tell me when running low ,, he gets up late showers , goes to get his daily paper and then sits all day on facebook ,,, i sometimes feel like the maid ,, how do you get support , i could do with some really ,, im in England , and good luck to all of you suffering with the cruelest disease