I (age 69) had my radical prostatectomy in March 2022 and the incontinence is still with me 6+ months later but is much, much improved. I stopped using pads after 3-4 months and now only have occasional drips and dribbles, usually in the evening. No longer any problems during the night. I would recommend pelvic-floor therapy as it helped me. As for sex drive and ED, my urologist started me on a daily low dose of Viagra (with stimulation) after my catheter was removed. Not much happened for the first 3 months or so but I was able to have an erection-less orgasm occasionally. Progress improved slowly but surely after 3 months and I am happy to report that intercourse was achieved recently (6 months post-surgery) so maybe you will have similar good fortune.