Hello @thetwoofus

Sorry to hear about your cancer dilemma. I think I was included in this loop because my husband has a cancer of unknown primary - looks kinda like lung cancer, kinda not - being treated as lung cancer for lack of a better option and because we too live in Colorado (Denver metro). Cancer treatment can make people lose weight and strength. My husband has lost 40 pounds with treatment BUT he's still here after 7 years and wouldn't be without treatment. Radiation isn't as rough as chemo for most people but do ask about side effects and risks and 'what ifs' - especially what if we don't move on this right now, etc. We are with Kaiser, so if you'd like information on that, happy to share. I personally am moving to Univ of Colorado health care when I get Medicare in December however. If I can help please reach out. Hugs