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Thanks for your candidly honest comments. I am in a similar circumstance to yours but I’m probably 20 years older. I don’t have much to add to what’s already been said; however, regarding your relationship with your wife, I would get a good couples and/or sex counselor. If your wife won’t go, then you go. There are many reasons a woman gives up on sex. Some, perhaps most, can be overcome, if she’s willing. You seem willing to communicate openly about this. I truly hope your wife is. If she’s not and sex is really that important to you, then you may have another decision to make. You’re young yet. I wish you and your wife well.
I had the radical prostatectomy 4 years ago.
Fortunately some nerve endings were saved.
The surgeon suggested masturbation to maintain some level of sexual normality.
With the use of sexual images on the web I managed to get a weak erection which was enough to reach orgasm.
What i noticed was that it was best when the bladder was not empty.
The orgasm contractions caused a strong ejaculation but with urine.
This was an improvement over ejaculation without urine.
For those who can still have relations with a partner a condom is recommended....
Thank you for being candid. It means a lot, particularly since most of the guys I know would be uncomfortable talking about this.