I agree. I thought this past time of calling me from under a bridge would be his rock bottom. He went thru Mayo and was put on lithium- but was off it within a week. He is kind in the house and working full time now, and his swings are virtually unnoticeable ( but I see them, he really keeps them under control ). I promised his siblings that should he disappear again that I won’t rescue him. And for now I guess having him home allows him to save up for some sort of future ( he’s 32) on his own. It all gets so complicated because he’s so sweet and kind ( usually, although when he’s stressed his replies get short and he goes to his room …. So he won’t yell, etc…) and since my husband has died - having extras in the house seems right. His brother is also home since just graduating college. My question is …. How do I inspire ( or demand or encourage) him to fly. To go off and create his own life. After all , I won’t be around forever.