I was surfing Amazon looking for comfort a few months ago. I found a book I wish my oncologist had given me in the very beginning. The Big Ordeal (understanding and managing the psychological turmoil of cancer) by Cynthia Hayes. It is easy to read and explains what is going on with our minds and hearts as we deal with the physical challenges. Its not limited to breast cancer. You might want to try it on for size and get a copy for those who care about you, too.