Hello @calygirl84, it's nice to meet you. I'm sorry to learn of your chronic pain and symptoms from various health conditions. I'm wondering if you have ever considered Mayo Clinic's Pain Rehabilitation Center? Given your diagnoses and the fact that you want to feel better at age 65, perhaps the PRC would be a good fit.

Here is more about the program:
https://www.mayoclinic.org/departments-centers/pain-rehabilitation-center/sections/overview/ovc-20481691
I graduated the Mayo PRC and can attest that it is an amazing life changing opportunity that works with patients on 4 categories - physical, emotional, behavioral and chemical. These 4 areas, fuel the fire of chronic pain. Ultimately the goal is to learn how to cut the fuel lines off.

What do you think? Might it be a program worth looking into?