@cekkk I wonder if @ldrlaw thought that would help, that she would be the first to open the door for her husband. In the end, we each have to make the decisions that affect our health and life. Sometimes people are too scared to think of what could happen, or don't believe their situation is as dire as it is. Sometimes people do not want to do the work involved, or they have memories associated with the situation that freezes them into inaction. We can offer solutions, or ways to cope, but we can't do it for them. There is a lot to be said for speaking to someone "in the trenches" that's for sure!

@ldrlaw, has there been any progress in helping your husband understand his health situation?
Ginger