5 years of medical study and you can't form a sentence in proper English? It is sad. I can't even read this new "language". This generation of children are growing up being taught that this is the written word! Absurd.

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i am very sorry for you and for your loss....really we cannot do anything about it.....but what we can do,is to pray for our beloved ones who are not among us today and can hope that where they are,they are happy and in peace...may be you don't like my way of writing englih but it's not my fault....this is how people write these days and you know why??because everyone is in hurry....no one has much time....and what you call the new language,its how people write on internet....english is not my first language but i am pretty good at it....i thought "it is a forum not a grammer competition"....so i am sorry if my way of writing hurts you.....may be you should ask your government to form laws about this language thing....right.....more than 95% internet users use the same language.....and believe me it is English....i don't know what is your problem.....but sometime we should let things go....it is in our best interest....we always have a choice but we should make sure that we choose the right one....i give you a little piece of advice...you can keep on doing this self pity thing...or you can move on with your life....and i think instead of crying on what u dont have now may be it would be better for you if you think about what is left...you have need to find a reason to criticize other people...everone here on this forum is hurt either way...but if all of them keep thinking like you there will be no reason of this forum...and i really feel sorry for you.and in my five year study i learnt medicine,not English..... and this time if i have some grammatical or spelling errors,please let me know....wish you the best....bye

hello
i am very sorry for you and for your loss....really we cannot do anything about it.....but what we can do,is to pray for our beloved ones who are not among us today and can hope that where they are,they are happy and in peace...may be you don't like my way of writing englih but it's not my fault....this is how people write these days and you know why??because everyone is in hurry....no one has much time....and what you call the new language,its how people write on internet....english is not my first language but i am pretty good at it....i thought "it is a forum not a grammer competition"....so i am sorry if my way of writing hurts you.....may be you should ask your government to form laws about this language thing....right.....more than 95% internet users use the same language.....and believe me it is English....i don't know what is your problem.....but sometime we should let things go....it is in our best interest....we always have a choice but we should make sure that we choose the right one....i give you a little piece of advice...you can keep on doing this self pity thing...or you can move on with your life....and i think instead of crying on what u dont have now may be it would be better for you if you think about what is left...you have need to find a reason to criticize other people...everone here on this forum is hurt either way...but if all of them keep thinking like you there will be no reason of this forum...and i really feel sorry for you.and in my five year study i learnt medicine,not English..... and this time if i have some grammatical or spelling errors,please let me know....wish you the best....bye

and sorry to correct you but in your above given comment,grammatically this generation of children "is" growing up...not "are" growing up....so may be you need to take some language classes also...

Hi Day walker please keep in mind with the post that you have answered that immense grief can not be associated with self pity. It takes a lifetime to get over the lose of your child. Believe me I know I have lived it for the past 19years and wiil continue to do so. When you lose a child a part of you goes too, It is unexplainable. You can go on with life but you never get over it Piglit

Please Day walker read my post and know you need to take a step back Piglit

hi piglit,,i m sorry for my harsh words...you r absolutely right....this grief of loosing someone beloved is always with you...but we should not let this grief become our identity....we should keep moving on with our life...coz its the way of nature...so think i cant understand it...believe me what i have been through,may be u cant even imagine..but i am over it now..although it is with me but dont let it become my identity...it oes not affect my behaviour....but really i am sorry if i wrote harshly

Thanks for the apology Day Walker we have to be considerate of each others feelings. i have not let the death of my son take my identity in anyway through my grief of losing him. I have and will always be me. I can't really get the identity thing at all. It can however affect our behaviour as such in regards to the way we feel at times. I lost him at Easter and I have two very dear friends on here Momentum and Roxie who I can honesltly say that for about three days between them both they held me together/
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piglit..u r like my grandma...can i talk to you privately....can u give me ur email id??

no sorry not comfortable with that don't give out my email