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Loss and Grief: How are you doing?
Loss & Grief | Last Active: Apr 7 12:18pm | Replies (932)Comment receiving replies
Well, that’s my dilemma. Either I was deprived of sharing his last moment on earth with me, or I was spared the agony of watching him go. I go back and forth between the two. Maybe it’s just both and I need to move on.
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When I was informed that death was near I immediately knew that he was not going to die alone in some hospital bed. I made the request to bring him home. Although it was tough I believe he knew that he was in his own home and in his own bed. I was told that he knew I was by his side and I spoke to him. During the time there was no agony. I knew I was doing the right thing. It is looking back that is killing me. But I still think I did the right thing for him. Now I have to do the right thing for me and work on mitigating the hurt.