The med that the doctor put him on and the one they took him off seem to be helping - thank heavens as it was really getting bad. Now he is relaxed and smiling. Also admitting he does have dementia and needs help. Before he was claiming we were 'gaslighting' him! Among a lot of other 'charges'.

Both of his doctors were very concerned (as were we) about his anger - that it could turn violent.

He kept telling them that yes, he did erupt in sudden anger but had never physically abused me. He hadn't but mental abuse is a hidden one that does a lot of damage.

Do find help. Prayers are with you.