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Aging and Hearing Loss: Can You Talk About It?

Aging Well | Last Active: Mar 10, 2023 | Replies (62)

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@julie4 Oh, Julie, does this speak to me (if you pardon the pun)!

I got my binaural hearing aids in 2018 when I was 67-years-old. I had been monitoring my hearing over a period of 20 years just waiting for the time when my hearing loss would "qualify" for hearing aids with my workplace insurance at the time. I adjusted to them quickly and I use them every day. I *know* my partner has a hearing loss given his frequent misunderstandings and lack of response and both of these have occurred within just the past few years. I've asked him many times about getting his hearing tested. I've never said he might need hearing aids. His response? "You fiddle with your hearing aids a lot and I don't want to do that". He's referring to my iPhone where I have an app for my hearing aid control. Yes, I do "fiddle" with my phone because I'm adjusting for the hearing environment and for amplification.

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🙂 We've heard a lot of excuses for not getting hearing aids, but 'fiddling" is a new one! Well, not really. There are a lot of old jokes about absent minded elderly professors who 'fiddle' with hearing aids. Not exactly funny but typical.

Far too often hearing loss is associated with aging and senility. Also with lack of intelligence. Many people are indoctrinated with that association, and it prevents people from getting the hearing help that will keep them in the hearing mainstream. When we can't hear well in conversational situations we can easily misunderstand. Sometimes our responses to that misunderstanding give people the false message that we are senile.

Recent studies from Johns Hopkins and Stanford University relate earlier cognitive decline in older people to untreated hearing loss. Studies also show that people who withdraw socially for whatever reason, often experienced depression due to isolation.

Do you know people who have stopped participating socially?