Any and all comments are welcome because any advise will be helpful at this point! My son, who is 53, has been diagnosed with stage IV metastatic pancreatic cancer. Here is my dilemma he has lived with a woman for four years but never married her and really had an aversion to it considering his last history of two breakups. When he found out about his diagnosis they got married! Now given he has chemo brain all the time he has turned his health decisions over to this woman and she and I do not get along at all! All that aside I feel like they aren’t advocating for his cure but putting band aids on his cancer with chemotherapy! I realize Chemo is a necessary evil for metastatic cancer but I think there are other options with trials that several organizations can help you with. But she just ignores anything I say and I will message her with articles that could be critical to his care. Overall if she were a hospice nurse I would fire her for sure. How do I make him understand this is his life he’s toying with and he has to become proactive. He’s really sick from the chemo and seems he’s in pain a lot even with a 25mg Fentanyl patch and hydrocodone (?) in between. I text her asking questions and she totally ignores anything I ask or say. This is my son and only child and I need some help in dealing with this woman! HELP!